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Our Weight Loss Story on Local 4 News in Detroit

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When I started this blog, quite honestly, I didn’t really think or care who may read it. Writing to me is therapeutic. It helps me make sense of the world and find great things for my family to do. And it’s just plain fun for an extrovert like me.

Over the years, I’ve been shocked at the number of people who shout “Hey, Mrs. Weber!” when I’m out in public. Now, I may be hearing it a bit more thanks to a segment that recently aired on Local 4 News in Detroit. {Seriously, talk to me if you see me! I love chatting with readers.}

A producer from Local 4 happened to see this blog post highlighting my husband and I’s recent weight loss and decided we would make a fun story.

A few things I had to warn her about: My husband is NOT a fan of the camera and I have 3 crazy kids. Thankfully, my husband stepped out of his comfort zone and my mom rescued us and helped watch the kids while we filmed our segment.

We are SO proud with how it turned out.

WATCH IT HERE –> http://www.clickondetroit.com/lifestyle/family/howell-couple-losing-weight-still-enjoying-food-indulgence/34220474

We are NOT experts on losing weight. Not even remotely. We just are happy to share what has worked for us, which may be completely different from what will work for you.

It’s our hope that we can inspire a few people out there to take the plunge and get control of their health. We are far from perfect, but we feel great, and isn’t that the ultimate test, regardless of what the scale says?

Every big goal starts with a small step. Best of luck if you are trying to lose weight and get healthy. I’m here if you’d like to reach out and ask questions or need encouragement.

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your support!

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Celebrating 4 Years of Blogging

Today marks 4 years of blogging. While this doesn’t seem like much of a feat, it is. Do you all know how much time blogging takes up? 😉 I only wish I had more time — I have SO many ideas to share!

With that said, I maintain starting this blog has been the best decision I ever could have made for myself and my family. While I don’t make a ton of money with it, I have so much fun, and it has proven to be an amazing outlet for me to connect with awesome people and companies, and to practice my writing and photography skills.

I am a people person through and through. I love learning new things and exploring with my kids. I enjoy trying to help businesses achieve their goal, whether it’s bringing people through the doors or selling tickets. I am very passionate about social media. But most of all, I just love sharing and learning great info from my readers.

I have had many great memories of blogging through the years. A few of my favorites:

~ Taking a ride around Detroit in the Oscar Meyer Weinermobilewienermobile

~ Touring Hudsonville Ice Cream

~ Tossing the first pitch at a Tigers game {at 33 weeks pregnant!}

~ Attending the grand opening for the SEA LIFE Aquarium

Kids Checking out SEA LIFE Michigan

~ Visiting Crooked River Lodge in Alanson, Michigan and Castaway Bay in Sandusky, Ohio

~ Having this post of Christmas events go viral {very cool experience, but also very scary!}

~ Writing dozens of letters to my children for their major age milestones

~ Getting countless messages of appreciation for sharing about my daughter’s speech delays

~ Emails from readers sharing how I have helped their family with free/discounted tickets or ideas for things to do

On a professional level, I’ve been contacted for jobs and worked with many of my ‘dream’ brands, proving you can do anything you set your mind to just by being who you are and doing what you love.

From a family perspective, I have been able to bring SO many experiences to my children — things we never could have afforded otherwise. For that, I am eternally grateful for each and every opportunity I’ve been granted {and for my wonderfully patient husband and eager children for always coming along on adventures}.

Thank you for listening, commenting and sharing my posts during the past 4 years. You fill my heart with joy daily and I feel so blessed to have you along on my journey!

I have a fun giveaway coming up to celebrate, so stay tuned!

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Getting Back on a Healthy Track in 2015 {+ New Unilever Dry Sprays Available at Meijer!}

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My husband and I at The Color Run a few years back. Love having a partner in crime to keep me motivated!

The post below is sponsored by Meijer. All opinion expressed are my own.

Almost two years ago, I was privileged to be a part of the Shaklee 180 team of blogging women from across the country. Together, we lost weight, encouraged each other, and gave each other tips for working out and eating healthy.

Now that the partnership is over, and I’ve had my third child, I am finding it’s a bit of a struggle to find time to work out. Not because I don’t know how…It has just been a major challenge to find an hour to myself with three small children and a job where I work in the morning and at night.

I refuse to fall victim to excuses though.

I have slowly been trying a new routine of walking and running. I bought myself a Fitbit Flex for Christmas, and try to challenge myself to get 10,000 steps in at least three times per week. It isn’t always possible, especially during the holiday travel season, but I am trying. This works because I can do it while the baby naps, and just have the girls play in the basement while I am on the treadmill. It’s not ideal, but it’s what I need to do until the baby isn’t as needy.

Even when I walk, I tend to work up a sweat, so I am thankful for the new Dry Sprays from Axe, Dove and Degree, found in the deodorant aisle at Meijer.

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These new 48-hour antiperspirant sprays are unlike anything available and go on instantly dry for a cleaner feel. Unlike with ordinary sticks or gels, dry sprays leave no visible residue on skin or clothing. My preference has been for the Dove one, and my husband likes the Axe one {and so do I…It smells SO good}. [Read more…]

My Hair Donation to Wigs 4 Kids

My Hair Donation To Wigs 4 Kids

There is no denying it — each of us has had cancer impact our lives in some way or another. This week I had a new reason to say screw cancer, because two family members were diagnosed with it.

Like most of the world, I loathe cancer. I hate that it hurts so many people, and I really hate that even children endure it. My heart goes out to all dealing with this terrible disease.

When I learned about hair donation to help cancer patients a few years ago, I knew it was something I wanted to put on my bucket list. In the past, I always grew impatient and cut my hair before it met the required lengths {most organizations require between 8 and 12 inches}, but when I learned I was pregnant, I knew I could make it happen since prenatal vitamins help with hair growth and I knew I wouldn’t be dying my hair.

I was thrilled when a friend mentioned Wigs 4 Kids, a St. Clair Shores, Michigan-based organization. Something that struck me about them was that they give wigs to children free of cost. I also love that they provide hair to children with other hair loss issues such as alopecia, trichotillomania, lupus, hydrocephalus, burns and more.

To me, it’s just hair…But to a child who has lost her hair? It could mean the world.  

So when I cut off 11″ of my hair today, I didn’t mourn my loss. Instead, I celebrated the fact that I am lucky enough to give it to someone who needs it more than I do.

My amazing stylist Jill at Maki J’s Salon in downtown Howell reassured me that I could pull off short hair, so I put my trust in her and let her go with her vision. Since I have really thick, wavy/curly hair, she made sure to give me a mom-friendly ‘do that I can wear both curly and straight. While it is going to take some getting used to, I couldn’t be happier with her work. Here are the results:

My Hair Donation to Wigs 4 Kids

I can’t wait to ship off my hair this week and help a local child in need!
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Our Newborn Photo Session with Deanna Spivey Photography, Metro Detroit Photographer

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I often like to stand on my soapbox and tell moms-to-be a few things they should consider getting with a new baby. Skip the $500 strollers and the heaps of things you may never use — get a great camera, a great rocking chair, and a photo package for the baby’s first year of life, or at the very least — professional newborn photos.

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Why? A baby changes before your eyes during the first year of their life…and there is nothing quite so heartwarming than looking back at your nugget when they are just days fresh. {Their skin, hair, eyes and more change just a couple of weeks after birth, so it’s really neat to look back and see the changes.}

I was beyond ecstatic to work with Deanna Spivey Photography again, this time for Miles’ newborn shots.

I can take decent photos, and for that, I feel lucky. But I can in no way manipulate a baby quite like a professional can {nor do I have the energy in those first postpartum days}, and watching Deanna work was like watching a sculptor with clay. It was nothing short of amazing!

I mean…LOOK. Babies in baskets for the win!

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Meeting Miles

Miles’ Birth Story: Third Child Charm

Last Wednesday I went in for my midwife appointment at 40 weeks, 5 days. She swept my membranes for the third time. THIRD time’s a charm, right? I was dilated to 4cm and 80 percent effaced. But where was my baby?! After she reassured me it would be literally a day or two, I went on my merry way and that was that. I was just thrilled to hear an induction had a slim chance of happening and I had made my peace of going all the way to 42 weeks if it meant he would come on his own terms.

Nighttime hit and I went into nutso nesting mode and cleaned the house. By the time I hit the hay, I was exhausted and so afraid of baby coming and me not having the energy. Someone was looking out for me because I got the best pregnant sleep I had gotten in a month. I woke up at 6:30 a.m. with minor cramping and just knew it would be the day.

I made some lists, had some bonding time with Karina while Kinley slept, responded to emails all while feeling a bit off. Then 9 a.m. hit and I had a hard contraction. All of the sudden I was getting contractions 10 minutes apart and then every five minutes. Though they were bearable, I called my mom and told her to come over figuring even if I labored for a bit, it would be nice to have her there just in case. After a few more contractions, I called the husband as well so he could make the 35 minute commute from work home.

I stayed busy with the kids while the contractions came, and they didn’t even notice anything was wrong, which was my goal. I didn’t want to scare them or see me wince too hard in pain.

When the hubby got home, I told him to grab the suitcase and food and we’d better get going. The contractions were getting closer together and stronger and I did not want to feel uncomfortable on the 25 minute drive to the hospital.

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Before leaving for the hospital. As you can tell, Karina didn’t want us to go…Ha!

On the drive, I shed a few happy tears: So far, my labor was going exactly how I had hoped — it was happening during the day, the sun was shining, I was in a great mood, and beautiful music played {Enya Pandora is amazing for relaxing}. Also? One of my best friends had delivered a healthy baby boy {her first after two girls as well} that morning. The thought of our little boys sharing a day gave me desire to press on and let my body just open up and birth.
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To My Son Before You Are Born

To My Son {Before You Are Born},

In a few weeks {perhaps even days}, we’re going to meet for the very first time. You’re likely going to cause me an incredible amount of pain and then you’re going to make your grand entrance into the world and fill a section in my heart where I didn’t even realize there was a void.

Anyway, I wanted to take a moment to tell you what’s on my mind before you come. Of course I’m nervous about everything that’s inevitable {giving birth, keeping you alive during those first few months, how your sisters are going to adjust, etc.}, but truthfully, I’m more nervous about the bigger things, like the man you’re going to become.

I by no means have all the answers on how to make a mentally and emotionally strong man, so I hope you don’t expect that out of me. Shoot, I don’t even have things figured out for myself most of the time. But I promise to always give you my all, and listen to your thoughts and concerns with an open mind and heart. I hope in my heart for the type of relationship where you can talk to me and your daddy about anything and everything, even if it means seeing things differently.

In fact, here are more of my hopes for you:

  • I hope you find something in your life that gives you passion early on.
  • I hope you listen to and respect your big sisters. I already know they will be very protective of you, their baby brother.
  • I hope you always feel love from your daddy and I.
  • I hope you are never afraid to express your feelings — the good and bad.
  • I hope that you never give up. I want you to follow your dreams without fear, and never let worry hold you back from the man you will become.
  • I hope you turn out like your father. I want you to know there is no better man out there, and you are going to be very lucky to have him in your life. Nurture your relationship forever.
Whoever you are now as my youngest baby, and whatever man you become, I promise to always love you. I can’t promise to be perfect along the way, but I can promise to always do my best.
 
See you soon, sweetheart.

 
Kisses,
Mama

35 Weeks Pregnant

35 Weeks Pregnant

35 Weeks Pregnant When you’re a third time mom, it’s kind of hard to get those cute belly pics without a mini photo bomber. Related: I am too big and hot to do my hair, so waves and ponytails is likely what you will see from here on out 😉

35 weeks pregnant?! Oh man. My heart just skipped a beat just typing that. How has this pregnancy gone by SO fast? Just yesterday I found out I had another little bean in my belly! It’s officially go time.

Time to finish organizing, put together the nursery, pack my hospital bag and prepare several weeks worth of content for my job. And people say to sleep and relax in the final weeks…HA!

Speaking of relaxing…Ugh. Sleeping has not been fun lately. I am constantly hot and uncomfortable. Since nighttime is rough, I am exhausted by afternoon and have been trying to sneak in a cat nap for 20 minutes or so when Karina naps. Once in awhile, Kinley lets me get away with it. Other days she throws a ball at my head or shouts “mommy! mama! mom!” in my face until I move. This is the reality of my life. No rest for the weary.

When I do catch some shut-eye, I dream of baby boy. I have a great, speedy birth and he’s another big baby {9 pounds, 6 ounces in every dream, actually}. He latches, I cry, and another chapter begins. I’m hoping if I keep having this dream it will come true but I am realistic in knowing that births rarely go how we plan them.
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Marriage, 6 Years Later

Letter To My Husband: Our Marriage, Six Years Later

Marriage, 6 Years Later

Photo by Lara Douglas Photography

My Love,

I can’t believe we have been married six years today. To many, this may not seem like much, but according to divorce statistics, I’d say it hopefully means we are in it for the long haul. {According to stats, 20 percent of marriages end in 5 years.}

Isn’t it insane to think about how much our marriage has changed in the past six years? We’ve moved several times, had two children {almost 3!}, changed careers, seen life/death happen before our eyes, and more.

What started out as hot and heavy with physical touch as our forte, scoring 100% in the sexuality category in our pre-marriage assessment, has blossomed into a more realistic view as we deal with the mundane things like a budget, housework, and of course, raising kiddos.

I have certainly learned there’s some things relationship books don’t tell you. They don’t give you a realistic expectation of what butterflies feel like six years in.

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Where I Hope To Grow In My 30s {Happy Birthday To Me!}

Today is my 30th birthday and despite a surprise pregnancy altering my view of how exactly I would celebrate, I am determined to live it up in the decade ahead!

I have grown SO much during the past 10 years and I look forward to continuing to refine myself more during the next 10 to create Lauren: Version 3.0.

With that said, I have some advice for myself on where I hope to grow in my 30s:

  • Stop working for free. You are worth it! With that said, know when to say yes because sometimes it pays in ways you’d never expect.
  • Don’t keep putting effort into dying relationships. If a friend isn’t going to meet you halfway, it’s not worth your time…You’re too busy to waste time with lame excuses.
  • With that said, always make time for those friends who have been there for you. Kids are an infinite source of joy, but they are not your only joy. Never lose sight of your girlfriends.
  • There are few things that make you cry harder than hearing about cruel people. Do less clicking on the morbid stories.
  • Don’t get your panties in a twist over ignorant things people post on Facebook or news stories that are meant to ruffle feathers. Learn better word vomit control in the next decade. It is not worth an argument where people can hide behind their computer screens.
  • Dishing out truth can be incredibly valuable, but don’t dish it out too harshly. It’s not worth hurting someone’s feelings. Especially remember this with your daughters. Be helpful; not critical.
  • Keep making an effort to know your neighbors. Have beers together and help each other where possible.
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Tigers Paws

A Pregnant Lady, Hudsonville Ice Cream and Detroit Tiger’s Baseball

I just ordered a Detroit Tiger’s maternity T-shirt because…

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Me and my buddy Paws, the Detroit Tigers mascot a few years back.

I am throwing the first ceremonial pitch at the Detroit Tigers game next Friday, June 13th {versus the Minnesota Twins} on behalf of one of my favorite Michigan brands, Hudsonville Ice Cream!

When the company asked me to do it, my first instinct was to say no. First off, I am at a disadvantage since I will be 33 weeks pregnant. Second, I haven’t thrown a baseball since college, and before then, it had probably been since 5th grade softball {and I was not good}.

But, then I re-thought it. After all, this is like a major bucket list item. How many people get to do this in their lifetime? And how many people get to do something on behalf of their favorite brands and for one of their favorite sports teams? Plus, how cool will it be for my son to say he stood on the Detroit Tigers pitcher’s mound while in his mom’s belly?

All good reasons to say YES. So here I am, getting ready to ROCK next week. Maybe I will even let the boys rub my belly for a little luck 😉

The first thing the husband said when I told him was “You need to practice so you don’t end up on one of ESPN’s worst first pitch videos.”

I’ve thrown the ball a bit, and while I’d say my form isn’t pretty, I’ve done pretty decent at throwing it {somewhat} straight and making it just about the distance it is from the mound to home plate. Here’s hoping it all goes well and nerves don’t get the best of me!

Stay tuned as I will be sharing lots of photos and such on my Instagram of my experience with Hudsonville and the Detroit Tigers.

Take me {and my baby} out to the ballgame, indeed, and thank you Hudsonville for giving me the experience of a lifetime!

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Early On Michigan

When Your Child Is “Behind.” My Experience With Early On Michigan

A few months ago, I heard something that was a bit of a shock from our pediatrician. She was worried that Karina {then 18 months old} may be behind with her language development. She told us to wait until 20 months, and if there wasn’t a lot of improvement, to give Early On Michigan, a call to screen her for developmental delays.

Her language understanding is there — she can hear what we’re saying and react. She’s affectionate. She looks us in the eye. She giggles and has stranger danger — just like any kid at 20 months. But, her language is pretty limited. Sure, I get what she is saying most of the time, but outsiders do not. {For example, “apple” is “ba-bo” and “blankey” is just “b”}

Comparison is deadly, but no matter what you do — it’s there. Especially when you have more than one child.

Kinley was an early talker. She “babbled” starting at 6 weeks and hasn’t stopped talking since. She sings, makes up songs, plays pretend and talks to herself constantly…and those are all things she has done from a young age.

Karina has never been a big babbler, but she has skills Kinley did not have at her age — she can build with LEGOs for long periods of time, she has fed herself from day one, she is extremely affectionate {Kinley is just now starting to become more of a lover…and I think it’s because Karina inspires her!} and she is SO brave.

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It’s astonishing to me how different siblings can be from each other — but really, it’s absolutely wonderful, too!

As we approached 20 months, the worrying started to creep in. I watched videos of Kinley at the same age saying “Happy Birthday,” and grew concerned since Karina still hasn’t mastered a single two-syllable word. I observed other kids in her age range and could see she wasn’t talking/attempting language like they were {without her sister helping!}. After stewing over the fact I might be over-reacting, I went with my gut and scheduled an appointment with Early On Michigan.

Early On is a FREE program through the State of Michigan that works with children from birth to age three, that specifically looks for developmental delays and/or disabilities.

Two women came to our house {one was a former special education teacher and one was a speech pathologist} for the evaluation. My girls HAMMED IT UP. Seriously. They must have thought these ladies were the coolest people ever the way they kept bringing out “toys” to play with and showering them with attention!

They asked me questions about Karina’s development and personality, and interacted with her with several games to test her fine/gross motor skills, language, memory, and more. The entire evaluation took a little less than an hour, and I felt that it was pretty thorough.

At the end, we discussed what I needed to do moving forward.

It was determined that she is behind in her language skills {she is speaking at a 16/17 month level versus where she should be at 20 months}. But we also learned she’s ahead for her age in adult interaction, social skills and concepts, so that helped some of my mommy guilt fall to the wayside.

Our plan of action is to just work with her more during the next few months {incorporating more sign language, working with flash cards, and soliciting Kinley for help — she truly is her best teacher}, and re-screen her in a few months if her language doesn’t improve. Additionally, I have scheduled a hearing test just to be sure that isn’t an issue, though that isn’t suspected.

I am SO thankful for this program to put my mind at ease, or if needed, help my child, in the future. Early intervention is absolutely key when it comes to little ones!

The reality is there is such a huge range of what’s “normal” for a child, especially during these early years, and reading things on the ‘net will only scare or confuse you. Only a parent can determine when something is just off with their child. Don’t hesitate to ask your pediatrician questions or get an evaluation to determine where your child stands if you’re worried. I am so happy I did!

If you think your infant or toddler may have a developmental delay, contact Early On at 1-800-Early-On or complete the online referral form.

This is not sponsored in any way by Early On. I just really appreciated this program and wanted to sure my experience in case there is a parent in my same boat!

Was your child a late talker? What helped them develop their language over time?

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Western Chief Rain Boots - Spring Favorites

My 2014 Springtime Favorites

IT’S SPRING! OK, while this phrase seems to be meaningless here in Michigan this year, it’s still fun to think about, right? I have to say, I am certainly digging all the pastels I’m seeing in stores…and I’m not one to typically be drawn to pastels. Clearly it has been a LONG winter. Today I’m sharing some of my current springtime favorites to get me in the mood for sunshine.

But what is the sun without a little rain? Which brings me to item #1:

Western Chief Rain Boots

Western Chief Rain Boots - Spring Favorites

These aren’t as “in” as the name brand boots, but they are affordable and most importantly — functional. I don’t know about you other mamas, but I have been a splashing fool already this year. My girls and I all have a pair! Mine {pictured above} were $25 at Tractor Supply Co. and worth their weight in gold for keeping my feet dry while walking with my minions through puddles. Note: I have VERY narrow feet. These are not made for wide feet. They have lots of fun patterns on Amazon, too! See here.

Reese’s Easter Peanut Butter Eggs Reese's Peanut Butter Easter Eggs These are my absolute favorite candy ever. Seriously. Move over fancy chocolate, this is the way to my heart! The Reese’s Easter Eggs pack a lot more peanut butter than Reese’s cups, therefore, they are my favorite. I usually sneak a few packs each year into my purse and try not to share with anyone 😉 The hardest part this time of year is not buying them every time I see them! So.Good.

Asparagus

Asparagus - Spring Favorites

On the opposite end of the health spectrum, I present another spring favorite of mine: Asparagus. It’s in season in Michigan April through June and it is my absolute favorite green veggie. Check out my favorite recipe for maple glazed asparagus here.

Method Squirt & Mop Wood Floor Cleaner

Method Squirt & Mop - Spring Favorites

Spring = spring cleaning, right?! Uh-huh. I love Method products, but this one takes the cake for my favorite! I started using this when we lived in a house with all wood floors. I kick it old school and literally use a cheap mop plus this, and it does the trick for cleaning my floors in a jiffy. I love that it’s environmentally-friendly and does not leave streaks on my floors either. Plus, the smell {almond} is nice.

Lemon Essential Oil

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This is my absolute favorite essential oil. Just smelling it puts me in a good mood and totally has me thinking spring. I love how long it lasts me, it’s inexpensive, and pretty much can do anything! Four of my favorite uses:

  • As a chemical-free antibacterial hand sanitizer {I love it in the car with the kids if we go to eat}.
  • In homemade cleaning supplies {I use it on my laminate bathroom floors mixed with vinegar}.
  • In water to change-up the flavor. It’s the best energy booster for a preggo like myself!
  • To freshen that load of laundry I almost always forget to throw in the dryer before bed.

So there you have it, folks. A few of my springtime favorites.

What are you digging this spring?

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Karina's Favorites

Karina’s Day at 18 Months Old

My dear Karina,

You’re 18 months old today and just as sassy and adorable as the day we met; the day you were born. You fill such a huge piece of my heart with your giggles, little teeth and dance moves and I simply can’t imagine life without you.

Although 18 months isn’t my favorite age {I’ll be honest with you…It’s downright exhausting}, you are learning at rapid speeds and just becoming your own little person. It has been an absolute blessing seeing you grow since your first birthday.

Can you believe you stopped nursing a few weeks ago? This has changed our day so much. Part of it was me pushing you to cool it a bit, part of it was you being OK with it. I am so sad in many respects, but you have adjusted beautifully, so I’m not going to complain. Thank you for being open to change — my body appreciates the break 😉

I thought I’d show you what a typical day at home is like for you these days. Of course, our days are ever-changing, but this is a good synopsis of what you do on a daily basis.

Karina’s Day At 18 Months

8 a.m. You’re up! Not in the best mood, but you settle for a few cuddles before begging for some food.

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I prep you a little plate of fruit to eat before we make breakfast when your sister wakes up. We play with your Little People while Curious George plays in the background.

9:30 a.m. Breakfast and free play while mama is on a conference call.

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I help you build with your LEGOs and you bring me all your doctor tools. The stethoscope {your favorite thing ever} goes on and stays on for the next few hours. You and your sister do great while I’m on my call…Thank you, girls!

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11 a.m. We head into town to register you for “school” next year. By school, I mean an educational playgroup you and I are going to do together next year one day a week. Before we get into the car, you and Kinley demand a snack and you get excited as I offer you an apple, your favorite!

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How you eat them always amazes me. For only having 5 teeth, you chow down like a champ!

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11:45 a.m. We’re back home and it’s time for lunch, which is bananas, a piece of cheese, some cucumber and half of a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, in which you proceed to take apart before eating. Can’t complain about your appetite. You eat just about anything I give you. Except raspberries!

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Noon. More free play, followed by reading books. You don’t have a lot of patience for them today, so we settle on a few quick ones where you laugh and point at doggies and kitties. You also enjoy flipping through the pages of The Very Hungry Caterpillar. The page with all his food is your favorite!

1 p.m. – 3:30 p.m. You fall asleep within a few minutes as a rock you into your nap. I cherish these moments with just you and I so much. You are seriously the best cuddler ever and I love kissing your head as you drift off to sleep. Sweet dreams, baby girl.

…A few hours later, Kinley barges in after she’s heard you stirring. She’s asked me about 5 times if you are up yet because she’s ready to play. You are so proud to show her how you pulled your socks off!

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3:30 – 5 p.m. More free play. This time you and Kinley play with stuffed animals in the crib for a bit and then we have a living room dance party to solid gold oldies!

This day daddy also surprised us with an early arrival home. You get so excited when he comes home at the end of the day and always run up to greet him. He entertains you while mama gets dinner ready.

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5 p.m. Crock pot dinner. Rice with salsa chicken, black beans, corn and avocado. You absolutely LOVE holding hands to pray beforehand. Melts our hearts on a daily basis.

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5:30 p.m. Daddy play time. He tickles you and tosses you into the air and gets you laughing hard. I love watching the bond grow between the two of you.

As I clean dishes, we sing songs. You adore “Wheels On The Bus,” and are so proud to have recently mastered moving your hands like the wheels. Of course your other favorite part is saying “shh shh shh” like the mama’s on the bus.

6:30 p.m. Bath time followed by some more play and a little TV. You and Kinley laugh a ton in the tub together. It’s adorable. Of course, she can’t let you get out without us making a spike in your hair with the soap!

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7:30 p.m. Books and bed time. Tonight’s favorite was your Thomas the Train book. You love trains and cars and almost always have one in your hands while you walk around.

After rocking you for awhile, I lay you down and you drift to sleep. Nighty-night, my precious little gal!

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I love you so much, peanut, and can’t wait to see you continue to learn and grow more in the months ahead. Keep being the happy, independent and stubborn girl you are and I have no doubt you will reach for the stars and beyond in your lifetime.

Kisses to the moon and back,

Mama

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Pregnancy Announcement

…And Then There Were 5

Pregnancy Announcement

My mom always told me the best blessings are unexpected…I think it was her way of justifying my surprise arrival into the world. I can officially now say I believe it.

Right before Thanksgiving, I found out I was pregnant. We had planned to have three children, but I was planning on waiting at least another year when Kinley was closer to going to school fulltime, Karina was fully weaned, and my 30th birthday was long past.

Well, God had other plans. I am pregnant with baby Weber #3, and after getting over the initial shock of three positive pregnancy tests {because truthfully, I was in denial}, I couldn’t be more excited. Babies are always a blessing, despite the chaos that is sure to ensue in our home during the next 18+ years. I am due August 1, just a few days after Karina’s 2nd birthday, so my kids will all be around 2 years apart. We just keep thinking about ages 13, 15 and 17. Say a prayer for us now 😉

I wish we could be one of those awesome couples that wait to find out what parts baby is hiding, but we just can’t. I am too excited and ready to plan. I would be lying if I told you I didn’t want a boy, because I do {hubby doesn’t mind either way}. I’ve always thought I’d have boys, so was shocked when I learned I was having girls both times {yet truly elated…girls rock}. Honestly though, any healthy baby will do. We have plenty of room in our hearts to love on whatever little nugget comes our way!

My pregnancies with both girls were similar — food aversions, similar cravings {clementines}, nausea and hyper sensitive to smells. I haven’t had any of those symptoms this time…I just felt flaky and tired at 8 p.m., and that I could eat a house! Seriously, I have never felt so hungry in my life. I am trying my best to stay healthy, but have had quite a few breakdowns of junk. Thankfully, I’ve tried to eat lots of fruits and veggies and take my prenatal vitamins daily to help balance it out a bit.

Due to my uterus being ready to rock, I already have quite a belly. So much so that I’ve been wearing maternity pants/my fat pants since 9 weeks. Pretty sure I didn’t need them until 12/13 weeks with both girls. I was convinced I was having twins at first due to how fast I popped…Turns out, there’s just one in there. When they say you really pop quick with #3, they aren’t lying!

As far as our family plan, this will be my last baby, so I am just trying to enjoy the amazingness of being pregnant. Stay tuned and I will be sure to bore update you all on my progress 😀

Cheers to new, unexpected beginnings in 2014!

Were all of your pregnancies planned? Also, moms of three: How the heck do you manage? I’m nervous!

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Winter Favorites

This post contains affiliate links. That didn’t sway my decisions at all — promise!

I’ll admit it: Winter isn’t my favorite season, but it does have some charm to it, right? Like the way the snow sparkles in the sun. And kids look all cute bundled up with rosy cheeks. I admit, after that, I don’t have much. But for now, I’m trying to enjoy the slower pace of life that comes with being stuck inside due to icy roads and frigid temps. It’s kind of nice for a change!

I am excited to feature some of my winter favorites that get me through this season here in Michigan. This list is inspired by my friend Detroit Duchess, who features her seasonal favorites regularly. See her latest list here.

Carmex Cherry Lip Balm

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This is one of my favorite chapstick brands for cold weather lips. It’s hardcore and one of the only kinds that will treat my chapped lips super insanely quick. Plus, there’s SPF in it for summertime too!

Atwater Vanilla Java Porter

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I love a darker beer year-round, but winter just begs for it. This brew from Atwater Brewery in Detroit is one of my favorites! Very heavy in the coffee flavor makes it extra yummy to me. It’s 5.5% alcohol, so not too strong, but enough to pack a punch. So.Good. {Also, since Detroit is a bit of a drive for me, I am thankful I can purchase this at my local Meijer.} Drink local, friends!

Frozen Soundtrack

Frozen Soundtrack

OK, this is for the kids, right? Well, not really. I love this soundtrack! First, it’s perfect for winter given all the talk about snowmen and the land of Arendelle covered in deep deep deep deep snow. Second, it’s SO catchy that even my husband finds himself singing along. This truly is the Disney I feel we’ve been missing since The Lion King.

A Great Book – The Fault In Our Stars

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I’ve been spending a ton of time at the library lately, and a ton of time reading. This young adult book will warm your frozen heart…But be warned you will need tissues! P.S. Yes/No Films just informed me that this is going to be made into a film this year. Go read it first! Books always trump the movies, right? 😉 Read more about the synopsis over here at one of my favorite websites — Goodreads.

Winter Headband

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A knit headband is not only practical, but can be adorable! I love wearing hats, but since I’m a mom, I wear my hair up more often than not. A headband is the perfect solution during winter. My friend Erin makes these adorable and warm knit ones for just $15. I love the one she made for me and wear it almost daily!

On Guard Essential Oil by doTerra

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I’ll admit — I was a little skeptical about essential oils at first. Now that I’ve been using them for a while, I’m ready to tell you all that they ROCK. This “protective blend” oil is my favorite for winter because it can truly help to fight colds and sore throats…and has ingredients we’re all familiar with {cinnamon, clove bud, eucalyptus, rosemary and wild orange}. Simply put a couple drops in bath water, in a vaporizer, or use it directly on your feet. I also suffer from cankersores  a few times a year, and this oil instantly numbs it and helps it go away quickly — something I have never experienced from OTC meds. Bonus points: It smells good, tastes good, and lasts a long time {it’s a tad pricey, but you only use about 2 drops each time}.

So there you have it, a few of my favorite {wintertime} things!

What are your favorite products and things this winter?

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Breastfeeding...17 Months Later

Breastfeeding At 17 Months

This post is about my breastfeeding journey. Please know I support you no matter how you choose to feed your child. This is just something that has been a huge part of my life lately and I need to write it out :)

Lately I’ve noticed a trend among family and friends, and heck — even strangers. When they find out I am still breastfeeding Karina, who is 17 months old, their eyes BUG out.

“You’ve got to get her weaned! Don’t you want your body back?” says a woman very close to me {*cough* my mother}.

Even a mom stranger made a comment one day at the library…”I can’t imagine breastfeeding when a child has teeth!” When I told her I was still nursing, she stopped in her tracks and eventually walked off. Guess I freaked her out. {For the record, I’ve only been bit once and after I screamed out, she hasn’t done it again.}

In some ways, I’ve never felt so judged in motherhood, not that I take it personally. Because like a lot of things in motherhood, unless you’ve been there, you don’t understand. Period.

In fact, I never understood how hard weaning is. And frankly, I don’t want to fight my child about it and deny her the ONE thing that makes her the happiest.

Penelope Cruz just came out saying “breastfeeding is addicting.” Yeah, I do not see it that way at all. I am NOT addicted. But my baby is. And it’s not crack, so how can I get mad at her for wanting something that is natural and is healthy for both of us? Most cultures recommend nursing for the first two years, though I do feel there’s a stigma around extended breastfeeding here in America.

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Nursing at the car dealership while buying a minivan. How very mom of me, eh? HA. Also, look at those eyes. Can you now understand why I can’t deny her?!

With Kinley, it was easy…She took a bottle of pumped milk pretty much from day one and just decided to quit nursing cold turkey at 10 months. I had quite a supply built up in the freezer, so she lasted awhile, but I did buy a few cans of formula to get her through the remainder of the year. I never had an ounce of guilt about it…It was just time. She was happy, and I was happy.

But my Karina has been SO different. She has NEVER taken a bottle. Not one. Going away for more than two hours at a time when she was young was incredibly hard for me knowing she was home screaming her head off for the boob. Eventually she got used to it and would just wait until I was home, but it was a long road. As a gal likes to be on the go, it was a healthy dose of the reality and sacrifices of motherhood for me. Thankfully, my husband is incredible and eventually found other ways to keep her occupied while I got out. Thank God she LOVED solids from the very first taste!

Even today, knowing I can’t leave her for more than one night is tough. I’d love to go on a relaxing mini vacay for a couple of nights with the hubby, but it’s just not in the cards. I can’t even plan ahead because right now I see no end in sight.

For now, I’ve employed the “don’t offer, don’t refuse” method. Some mornings she’s fine…She gets up and plays and doesn’t need to nurse until nighttime. Other days, when we’re home and she’s feeling needy {or teething}, she’ll nurse up to 5 times. She brings me her boppy and blankie, and will just stand there and cry until I cave. And I always do. I can’t say no when I know of a surefire method to make her happy again.

There are lots of positives to nursing into toddlerhood, but the big one for me is that it’s the only time during my day I truly get to relax. In fact, I wrote this entire post while nursing her. The only time it has been a challenge is when we were hardcore potty training Kinley. I literally sat on the floor nursing while encouraging Kinley to potty. I won’t sugarcoat it — those days were long and hard — but I survived.

The reality is I am ready to be done {and so is my husband}, but she simply is not. We all want what’s best for our kids, right? And right now, I guess that means I will be nursing her until she’s decided she’s done. I’m holding out hope that it naturally happens in the next few months, but we shall see.

{If you need some nursing encouragement, read my letter: Dear Newly Nursing Mother.}

When did your child(ren) naturally wean?

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12 Days of Happy

For the post below, I am linking up with fellow Michigan blogger Parsimonious Pash for her 12 Days of Happy! 

During the holiday season, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the silly things: When you might find time to shop, or wrap gifts {does anyone want to wrap mine?}, how you can find time to squeeze in dinners and parties, and of course, the financial burdens that come with all of it.

For the days ahead, let’s all try our best to focus on the HAPPY part of the season: The random acts of kindness. Seeing how children light up with every little twinkling light. Lighting a menorah, or reading the story of Jesus’ birth. Wouldn’t we all be better off focusing on those things instead of what we want?

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Here are the 12 items I am choosing to focus on in the days ahead:

1. Decor imperfections. This is not a year of a beautifully decorated house for me. The bottom half of the tree is missing nearly all of its ornaments, my jingle bells are hiding in the couch cushions, and my sparkling decor balls I carefully placed in a glass jar are being tossed around like toys. Nothing is in the place it should be. But it’s a beautiful chaos. It shows how much my children are enjoying it all, and that brings me much joy.

2. Lights. I’ve always adored Christmas lights, and I love driving around and finding the most decked out houses. Sometimes, I literally want to write those people thank you notes to say how much I enjoyed the lights on their home. I think this year I will do just that! Hearing the joy in Kinley’s voice while we’re driving around — “Mom! Look! Christmas lights!!!!” — is excitement in its purest form. Thank you to all who take the time to decorate your home — we appreciate it.

3. Food. Need I say more?! Cookies, candies, and all the not-so-healthy appetizers, are one of my favorite ways to indulge during the holiday season.

4. Family. This time of year is the time we get to see our families the most. It brings me so much joy to see the smiles my kids can bring to all their loving aunts and uncles and grandparents. Also, awkward family photos are sure to happen. because lord knows we can’t get all the kiddos in my family to all smile at once. While it makes me crazy, it is pretty funny to look back at them!

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5. Bundling up. OK, I hate the cold. But I hate being cooped up even more, so I will bundle up to play or walk so I can enjoy the great outdoors. And this is the one time of year I happen to love snow.

6. Music. I am the nerd that listens to Christmas music on Nov. 1. I try not to do anything else “Christmas-y” until after Thanksgiving, but I just love Christmas music. I have so many fond memories of it as a kid, so I think that’s what fuels my passion.

7. Seeing Santa. I find it fascinating to watch children meet Santa. So far, there has been NO interest from my girls, though the hype and excitement leading up to the actual meeting had me fooled. It’s just plain fun to see what your kiddos are going to do when they sit on the jolly old man’s lap.

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Neither of them knew what to do. At least there weren’t any tears!

8. Holiday events. From parades, to holiday light tours, there are so many awesome events all around us! Do a little digging, and you can have so much fun at local and FREE events. See my list of SE Michigan December happenings.

9. Christmas outfits. There is nothing cuter than Christmas outfits on little people…fluffy dresses with big ribbons for little girls and bowties and suspenders on little men are my favorites! Best part is they are only worn for one/two days, so it’s the perfect item to trade with friends or purchase at a mom-to-mom sale so you don’t have to spend a lot.

10. Seasonal scents and flavors. Mmmm…for peppermint mocha anything! I also love my spruce candle and anything smelling like sugar cookies.

11. Books. We rent books from the library weekly and have had fun renting children’s books highlighting holiday traditions around the world. But of course, The Polar Express and The Night Before Christmas never get old.

12. Random acts of kindness. Nothing warms my heart quite like hearing about the wonderful acts of kindness shared between mankind during this time of year. Such a great testament to what the season should truly be about.

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They fight one moment, then turn to kiss and make up. Sisters!

What are your favorite happy parts surrounding the holiday season?

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NickMom #MotherFunny Things My 3-Year-Old Says

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OK, we all know kids say the darnest things. I knew this going into motherhood. What I didn’t know was how funny it would be to hear your kids get absolutely mind blown on a daily basis. I’m so excited to share some of my NickMom MotherFunny moments!

Kinley is at such an awesome age — 3. While the temper tantrums and potty woes are constant battles, she is finally starting to become her own little person and put the world together. This has resulted in SO many #MotherFunny moments lately.

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{Typical photo these days. Seriously, good photographers for 3-year-olds deserve millions.}

Our funniest moments seem to fall into two categories — body parts and potty humor. Because let’s be real: Both supply dozens of giggles on a daily basis — no matter how old you are. Sometimes I just have to laugh at things I say that combine both subject areas, i.e. “Get your hands out of your pants!” Or, “If you touch your poop, I might throw up!” I can’t even believe the things that fly out of my mouth.

But this is about the things Kinley says…

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{Just heading out for a walk…}

ITEM #1: BODY PARTS

I’m still nursing Karina, so that alone brings the craziest questions and comments…Like, when we’re in public and Karina is crying. Kinley tells me, loud as heck, in the middle of Meijer:

“MOM! KARINA WANTS THE BOOB!”

Lately, she has been asking me a lot of questions about boobs. “Does Cinderella have boobs?” “Does Dora have boobs?” “Will I have boobs when I’m big?” — These are questions that have caught me off-guard to say the least.

The other part she is obsessed with is bellies. Some recent observations she’s had looking at my belly:

“Mom, why is your belly so soft?” and “Why do you have scratches on your belly?” {No worries, she now knows those are my tiger stripes and I earned them carrying two babies ;)}

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{Just another typical ensemble to wear while playing in the rain.}

She also is fascinated with the hubby’s belly and has said some funny things to him:

“Dad, does a caterpillar live in your belly?” and “Do you even have a belly button under all that hair?”

Thank goodness she doesn’t get the whole penis thing yet. Lord help me when she notices that on a baby boy one day!

ITEM #2: POTTY HUMOR

I haven’t even taught her my childhood favorite song: When you’re driving in a Chevy and your pants are kind of heavy, diarehea *fart noise*fart noise* — and yet she still just knows to make up songs about poop. How does this even happen? Why are bodily functions so funny to kids?

I’ve recently been asked what boogers are made of, where farts come from, and what is in poop. No joke. Someone get this kid a bodily functions dictionary stat!

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{She is not reading a bodily functions dictionary above, but I do think it may be a good present for her this year.}

If you need a laugh, be sure to visit NickMom.com’s “Kid’s Say of The Day” page. It cracks me up and is seriously kid humor at its finest!

See more hilarity at NickMom.com, on Twitter @NickMom or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/nickmom.

What “MotherFunny” things have your kids said lately? Write me a comment or share on Twitter with the hashtag #MotherFunny!

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A Cider Mill, A River, and A New Walker

Today was the perfect cool fall day and we decided to head to the cider mill for some cider and donuts after a long few days filled with teething and hardcore potty training.

It started off as an amazing mother/daughters day with complete with giggles, sweet treats hot-from-the-oven, and just soaking in the beauty of fall in Michigan.

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We had finished our cider and donuts and decided we’d go for a walk around the grounds. Really, this was my attempt to wear out the girls as best I could to ensure naps. I thought we were off to a good start when Kinley decided to go back and forth on this bridge about 100 times.

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We followed a pretty little trail along a river, winding our way and chatting about all the different color leaves we were seeing.

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I decided to get Karina out of her stroller so she could walk on the path alongside her sister. Walking quickly turned into toddler-style running with little falls every few feet due to the bumpy terrain. The girl’s 14 months old. She’s going to fall as she figures out this whole moving around thing. I figured it was just grass and didn’t think anything of it.

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I was about 15 feet behind the girls, observing as they picked up leaves and Kinley tried to hold Karina’s hand. I had just set my camera down in the stroller after snapping away when I witnessed what every mother fears…Karina, tripped, fell and ROLLED into the river. The freaking RIVER! {shown on the left in the photo above…pretty much right before the fall}.

As any other mom would do, I ran as fast I could and jumped right into the waist-deep river, pulling her up by her coat to the surface. I quickly threw her onto my shoulder to hit her back and allow her to cough up some water. She was in the water for not even 10 seconds, but LORD. My heart felt like it was an eternity. I then understood how it is moms can pick things up that weigh as much as a ton when they see their baby is in danger.

She had a few cries and then just stared at me in shock. I checked her and she was completely fine — no bumps, bruises or scratches.

Meanwhile, Kinley was behind me screaming “Karina felled into the river!!!” and “Karina is wet!” She was in shock too, apparently.

There was nobody around to hear. In a way I felt relived because I wasn’t exactly feeling like mother of the year after I witnessed my baby girl tumble into the cold water.

We walked as fast as you can while soaked back to our van. I stripped her down and wrapped her in a towel I keep in our van to protect the floors. We had extra clothes in case of a potty accident, so I quickly dressed her in warm clothes, wrapped her blankie around her, and cranked the heat.

When I stared down at my legs and feet dripping with water, I couldn’t help but say a prayer of thanks because it could’ve gone much worse. So glad an angel was watching out for us and keeping my little nugget safe from harm.

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Fast asleep on the ride home

Funny thing is, this was me many years ago. When I was 3, I walked right into our pond and my dad had to jump in and rescue me {he was mowing the lawn nearby}. That story comes up at just about every family gathering.

I can only hope this was just a blip on Karina’s radar and we’re done with scary moments for awhile. I knew I had to blog about it so I can tease her in the future like my family has teased me…Or, she can joke with me how I, her mother-of-the-year, let her roll into a freaking river!

These kids sure do keep me on my toes.

Have you had any parent-of-the-year moments recently?

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