Every day I get a little twitchy-eyed watching my young children “craft.” I put that term loosely because sometimes I think they use it to take advantage of my weakness, which is self-expression. With that said, who am I to judge what is art when it doesn’t belong to me?!
I am passionate about being a hands-off parent with certain things, and art is one of them.
Why? Well, I have a vivid memory of how giddy I felt the first time I discovered glittery mode podge at summer day camp. I recall my fingers constantly being covered with Mr. Sketch scented markers at Latch Key, and coloring for hours quietly waiting for my mom to pick me up. Now, I still enjoy the smell of a new box of crayons; I am instantly transported back to a carefree time in my life.
I think every child should wear their artistry like a badge of honor. Because when you step back and just let kids go, really cool things are created — including happier children.
Additional side effects of art for kids are strengthening focus and attention, developing hand-eye coordination and helping with the strategic thinking practice — all crucial to life success. With my somewhat shy girls, I love that it helps build their self-esteem, too.
My oldest with a mixed media piece 😉 She is always proud of her art and asks me to take photos!
Because art is sacred to me, I have some “art rules” in our house.
I vow to:
- Never have a fridge without kid art on it.
- Never control the direction my kids take with their crafts, even if it makes me slightly twitchy. It is *their* art, not mine.
- Not jump to conclusions about what my kids are creating. I want them to explain their own thought process.
- Take my kids places to explore and gain an understanding of art.
- Allow easy access to age-appropriate art supplies – scissors {kid-friendly}, glue sticks, crayons, stickers, etc. so my kids can create when the mood strikes them.
- Let them make art with anything we may be recycling or throwing out otherwise. {My girls are obsessed with crafting with toilet paper rolls and boxes, for example.}
- Should my children show an interest in pursuing art, I will come up with the financial means to allow them to experiment through classes.
- Ensure my kids see me do artistic things to show them art can be a wonderful outlet for adults, too. {They already know I don’t share my crayons and colored pencils!}
- Allow crafty messes to be made, even when it makes me feel slightly twitchy.
Letting kids make a mess may be the hardest part for me. Because I allow art supplies to be accessed without my supervision, I do periodically find surprises on our carpet and wood floors. And I don’t care what the label says — the term ‘washable’ is loose in the craft world!
I recently tested some STAINMASTER™ Carpet Stain Remover on some marker that obviously went rouge, and was happy it worked like a charm. I’m happy I don’t have to hide our craft stains with an area rug any longer! Check it out:
So glad there are great products out there to help this mama clean up messes — crafts or maybe even occasional coffee and wine spills I have 😉
I can’t wait to see how my kids grow with their art in the years ahead {or maybe they will decide they don’t love it, and that’s OK too}. Who else is ready for some new crafts to don their fridge this year?
I received a sample of the STAINMASTER product mentioned and was compensated for this post. All thoughts are mine.
What do you do to encourage your child’s creativity?
Ron says
Ah! Stainmaster! I would love to buy a dozen of it too! Having two kids at home, a little boy and a 7year old girl is quite a chaos 🙂 Thanks for sharing this product!
Mrs. Weber says
You got it! Thanks for chiming in, Ron!
Julie Byrd says
My first lesson when my child began to walk was to let him to make a mess. It was like a devil in me … no , no let him. I knew that this is the right thing. If you let your child to make a mess he will develop art skills. It is important thing. I used STAINMASTER, too. It helps a lot with cleaning this ART. 🙂 Best regards!